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Four Books. One Continuing Examination of False Allegations and Family Conflict

From the personal perspective presented in Don’t Blame ME, Daddy, to the clinical and legal analysis contained in Parents’ Pawns, parental alienation book. Dean Tong’s published works examine these issues through forensic analysis, case-related observations, legal concepts, and practical guidance developed in response to complex family disputes.

Don't Blame ME, Daddy
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Groundbreaking Publication · 1992

Don't Blame ME, Daddy

Distinguishing True and False Allegations

Don’t Blame ME, Daddy examines child sexual abuse allegations with particular attention to the difficult distinction between substantiated abuse and false accusations.The book addresses an area where careful evaluation matters because allegations can affect children, parents, custody proceedings, and broader family relationships. It presents Dean Tong’s early work concerning disputed child abuse allegations and the issues surrounding their investigation and interpretation.

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Parents' Pawns
New Release · 2026

Volume 03

Parents' Pawns

Expert Advice in Navigating False Allegations and Parental Alienation

Parents’ Pawns examines the intersection of false child abuse allegations, parental alienation, custody conflict, and the clinical and legal questions that can arise within these cases.The publication addresses subjects including exceptions to the child hearsay rule, risk assessments, parental alienation victimization, and case vignettes.

The book is available through Amazon and directly from the publisher.

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Elusive Innocence
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Survival Guide · Third Book

Elusive Innocence

Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused

Elusive Innocence focuses on the challenges experienced by people facing false allegations and the practical issues that can emerge after an accusation has been made.

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ASHES to ASHES
Out of Print

Sequel Publication · 1997

ASHES to ASHES...

Families to Dust

The handbook discusses family court dynamics, child protection systems, and the difficulties that can develop when abuse allegations become part of contested family proceedings.

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Fatherhood Crisis: A Time of Nightmare, Daylight and Redemption
White Paper · 2008

Professional Resource · Digital PDF

Fatherhood Crisis

A Time of Nightmare, Daylight & Redemption

Fatherhood Crisis examines fatherlessness in America alongside the challenges fathers may encounter during custody disputes, parental alienation matters, and cases involving false allegations.

The white paper considers decades of legal, social, and cultural developments, including No-Fault Divorce, CAPTA, VAWA, and repressed-memory cases. It also discusses practical approaches for fathers seeking to remain meaningfully involved in their children’s lives during family conflict.

Parental Alienation False Allegations Child Custody High Conflict Relationships

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Pitfalls When Divorcing a BPD Spouse
Monograph · Available

Professional Resource · Product #500

Pitfalls When Divorcing a BPD Spouse

Guidance for False Allegations, Custody Litigation & High-Conflict Divorce

This monograph addresses divorce and custody disputes involving a spouse with Borderline Personality Disorder, particularly situations in which allegations of domestic violence or child abuse become part of the litigation.

Subjects discussed include psychological characteristics associated with BPD accusers, litigation considerations, interstate custody laws, UCCJA and PKPA guidance, syndrome evidence, and practical questions commonly raised during complex custody proceedings. The resource is intended to help readers better understand the interplay of psychological, procedural, and jurisdictional issues that may arise in high-conflict divorce cases.

False Allegations BPD Litigation Domestic Violence Claims UCCJA & PKPA Child Custody Interstate Jurisdiction
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Archive

Ashes to Ashes… Families to Dust is currently out of print.

Selected passages may remain available through the Author’s Products page for readers interested in Dean Tong’s earlier work concerning false allegations and family court disputes.

Peer Review

"Dean Tong’s third book, Elusive Innocence, was published in Legal Information ALERT, a publication associated with the University of Florida Levin College of Law."