Child Psychology · Suggestibility · Family Dynamics

Tong's Take On Coaching

Understanding coaching allegations, child suggestibility, parental alienation, and the evidentiary standards required to establish coaching in court.

What Does "Coaching" Mean?

In child protection and family court matters, coaching refers to allegations that a parent intentionally influences a child to make false claims against another parent.

Coaching is not a sports metaphor. Within cognitive child developmental psychology, it refers to a parent allegedly influencing a child to adopt narratives that may not originate from the child's independent experience.

In high-conflict divorces and custody disputes, children can become vulnerable to parental alienation, suggestibility, and source-monitoring errors.

While coaching can occur, it is generally considered the exception rather than the rule.

"It's not what you know — it's what you can prove in court."

Three Ways Coaching May Be Demonstrated

01

Admission

A parent admits to coaching during testimony, deposition, or to investigators.

02

Recording

Audio or video evidence documents the coaching behavior.

03

Child Disclosure

The child independently reports being instructed what to say.

Alternative Explanations Matter

Many unfounded allegations may result from source-monitoring errors, suggestive interviewing techniques, memory contamination, or misunderstandings.

Evaluating alternative hypotheses and the context surrounding a child's disclosure is critical to a comprehensive forensic analysis.

Important Consideration

Allegations should be evaluated objectively. Defense teams often face the challenge of disproving assumptions once an accusation has been made.

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If you or your attorney need assistance evaluating allegations, interview procedures, or coaching claims, explore available services.